When two people are in love, everything is beautiful for the parties involved.

However, life isn’t like that.

It takes only a matter of time  before the grey areas of the relationship start to emerge. And this is exactly the case of couples moving in together.

But don’t fret; with the right preparation, you can still make the relationship grow—and even stronger—despite all the drawbacks of living together.

Here are some of the most important things to remember before giving her the keys of your apartment.

 

1. Embrace the impending change in your relationship.

Moving in together is a time to get to know each other more. In this case, don’t be complacent. This is a big change in your relationship. It’s time to adjust a little. You’re going to share with her your interests and plans for the future. To attain a smooth companionship, take a positive attitude about this change all the time.

 

2. Have time to talk about your differences.

Open communication will prevent future disagreement that will eventually create a strain in your relationship. As domestic partners, you should know each other’s likes and dislikes. Be aware of the things that make her angry or sullen.

 

3. Delegate tasks.

Don’t be disorganized in your home. Each of you must have responsibilities to consider before moving in together. What is your agreement about finances? Who will clean the house? Each of you must have daily tasks. It is one way of sharing time, efforts and triumph.

 

4. Know your priorities.

Don’t forget that you’re not yet married. If you’re aware of your priorities, it is easy for your girl to support you. If you want to get a degree before settling down, let her know. If you’re aiming for a higher job position in the office, allow her to inspire you every day. If she knows your dreams and aspirations, she will not disagree with your decisions in life.

 

5. Keep the spark alive.

Don’t forget to keep dating. Of course, she will appreciate it. Even if you’re already living together, the little gesture of love always adds up to attain a long lasting relationship. Don’t hesitate to give her gifts even during ordinary days. If there’s a special occasion, don’t forget to prioritize the companionship over anything.

 

6. Continue loving her.

Are you aware of the basic things that will nurture your relationship with her? Find time to ponder about it. In the first place, you invited her to live with you because you love her. To avoid uncompromising events in your life together, continue loving her.

 

7. Don’t ignore slight disagreement.

If there’s a little spark of disparity, don’t ignore it. It will be eventually brought up in the future. It’s better to settle your dissimilarity of ideas and interests before it goes blown out of proportion. For instance, take time to discuss about financial independence and sharing of household chores.

 

 

8. Choose honesty all the time.

A web of lies is destructive in your relationship so maintain honesty at all times. One of the causes of failed relationships is dishonesty with one another.

 

9. Spend time apart

The best way to appreciate all the things you have achieved in life is to ponder about it. Take time to be alone. Obviously, spending time apart is essential to maintain individuality. It takes away the monotony of life.

 

10. Stay cool and gorgeous

Don’t forget to stay attractive. In the same way, your girl will do it. If you’re calm, she will find it refreshing. She will remain by your side forever. Who wouldn’t want a happy ending?

 

Your Turn

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